Dating Tips Part 2
Dating Advice When it is time
7. Get yourself groomed.
I know we said 'be yourself', but if yourself is sloppy, good luck.
- Men: If you have a beard or mustache then groom it. If you do find the woman that at least will deal with it, then it least keep it groomed. Especially if you are gray, nothing seems less sexy that a bushy santa clause.
Get your back groomed are shaved if you are going outdoors. Many women like a hairy chest, but the hairy back starts falling into the sasquatch look.
- Women: Shave your legs and under your arms. Yes, we know women who "don't". But I can guarentee you that 90% of the women that don't shave regularly are already dating or married. Compared to the 90% of women who don't shave, and are complaining they can't have a steady date.
Most Americans prefer groomed, face, legs, genitalia, under-arms.. so if you want to avoid making a bad first impression, get those clippers out.
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8. Get your attitude right.
No-one finds negativity and woe-is-me conversations attractive. You might have some sorrow, but pathetic and sexy don't mix. If you aren't sure if you are filled with negativity do these simple things:
- Be aware that most people are negative oriented. Why? Because being negative takes ZERO effort, any dumb-ass can point out what is wrong, it takes effort to make it right.
- Who do you spend long conversations with? Most negative people can talk on and on. But here is something important for you to remember: Most positive, good attitude people, will not spend much time around negative, crappy attitude people. They are too much of a drain.
9. Get Social
If you want to find someone to date go to the places where they may hang out. Gym's, cooking class, dance clubs, special parties, etc. Don't go to church, just because someone told you too. Please make more effort than that. :)
10. Date to Date
Do not make it more than it is. Get to know someone, spend some time, if you like, spend more. People who are looking for Mr. or Mrs. Right are often looking for them pre-made. It seldoms works like that. Find the raw materials, then become the shaper of what you like.